Friday, June 29, 2012

Fitness and Body Types: Understanding Fitness Part D



God enjoys diversity, as seen in nature with all the varieties of plants, flowers, and trees.  He also made many different body types, and all are fearfully and wonderfully made.  God did not give one body type as the model for all people.  He created human bodies in a variety of shapes and sizes, and each one has specific strengths, weaknesses, capabilities, and limitations.
While God loves and accepts each body shape and size, Hollywood does not.  Hollywood tries to tell the world which body types are beautiful and acceptable, at the exclusion of every other body type.  For instance, women models are generally abnormally tall and thin, with eating habits that are detrimental to their own health as well as the health of women around the world who aspire to be like them.  (This unhealthy thinness is not limited to female models.) 
God decides the physical attributes of every person.  An individual can alter his God-given appearance to some degree with diet and fitness, but not enough to change his basic structure.  Therefore, instead of trying to fit a mold he was not created to fit and showing God ungratefulness, he should give Him praise and thanks and be a good steward of his body.  Nutritionalist and personal trainer Ron Kardashian says,
Nowhere in the Bible does He say that a human being is born to be anorexic.  On the contrary, God says that He made you to be His son or daughter, uniquely created with wonderful gifting and potential.  While He desires for your body to be the temple in which He dwells, He does not describe the perfect shape, height, or weight that He prefers.  Instead, God places emphasis on the inner beauty of your person, not on the outward physique that will one day perish.  God considers the good behavior that proceeds from integrity of character more important than a “Hollywood-type” figure…According to Scripture, what is most precious to God?  …His Word does not teach that a certain physique makes you more or less delightful to Him.

Human somatotypes, or body types, have three distinct characteristics: endomorphy (endomorph or endo), ectomorphy (ectomorph or ecto), and mesomorphy (mesomorph or meso).  Some people fall into one of these distinct categories, but most people have a blend of characteristics from two of the categories.  These characteristics determine how each person’s body will look, react to exercise and gain or lose weight. Figure 2.1 gives representations of the three body types, while figure 2.2 gives representations of blended body types. 

Figure 2.1: The Three Somatotypes.



Figure 2.2: Somatotype Combinations.

  
The mesomorph (or meso) body type is best described as muscular.  Characteristic mesos have the ability to increase muscle size relatively quick and easy.  They have well-developed, rectangular shapes with thick bones, defined chests, and shoulders that are larger and broader than their waistlines.  Their hips are about the same width as their shoulders, and they have toned buttocks and legs.  Sylvester Stallone and Demi Moore are good examples of mesos.
            Mesos are well-suited for athletics and are physically capable of high levels of activity.  They excel in activities that require strength and short bursts of energy.  Conversely, endurance activities are not their forte and they tend to avoid the cardio section of the gym.  This avoidance is representative of playing to natural strengths.
Mesos tend to store fat evenly over their bodies and have a high metabolism because of their muscularity and physical activity.  Of all the three body types, mesos have the greatest ability to stay fit.  Unfortunately, as mesos age or become less active, they can easily become overweight unless they also reduce their diet.  Cardiovascular disease is a common threat for overweight mesos.
            The endomorph (or endo) body type is best described as round for males and curvy for females.  Characteristic endos have the capacity for high fat storage and a greatest propensity for obesity.  The majority of their body weight is centered in the middle, around the hips for females, and in the abdomen for men.  Structurally, they have large bones, round faces, large hips and thighs, and shorter arms and legs, which result in a stocky appearance. 
            Because abdominal fat carries a greater risk of heart disease and cardiovascular problems, male endos must be very diligent to control their weight.  Unfortunately, endos have a harder time controlling their weight, but it is possible, as Robin Williams has shown.  They are naturally strong and can gain muscle easily with weight training.  Every ounce of added muscle constantly burns calories, so adding muscle increases metabolism and can make controlling body fat much easier.  
Female endos have been among the most celebrated women of the last century.  Again, the word that best describes endo is curvy, which is an ideal trait for females.  Marilyn Monroe is the classic endo example. More recent examples are Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce, and Cindy Crawford.
The ectomorph (or ecto) body type is best described as slim.  Characteristic ectos have trouble gaining weight: think fashion model.  They have a linear shape with narrow hips and longer limbs.  Tom Hanks and Courtney Cox are famous ectos.
Ectos are well-suited for endurance activities, not physical contact.  Like mesos, they have a tendency to stick to what they do best, bypassing the free weights for the cardio equipment.  They have longer, thinner muscles, but they can add strength if they give the effort.
Ectos have low body fat, one of the best health qualities possible, because of their faster metabolism and tendency for endurance activities.  But, a healthy outward appearance is not always an indication of inner health.  Ectos who have a poor diet are at a greater risk of high cholesterol, hypertension, and obesity, even though an obese ecto may not look obese.
As previously stated, most people have a blend of characteristics from two of these three body types.  Expectations for physical appearance and fitness results must be matched to the limitations of a person’s body type.  Joseph Christiana stresses that getting results from any exercise
starts with knowing your body type.  Each body type requires a different exercise approach or methodology for reading its genetic potential.  Some types gain weight very easily; other types would have to eat all day to gain weight.  Some require very little effort to get great results, while others have to work zealously to see fewer results.  There are body types who carry their unwanted weight in the upper body area, and others who gain weight in the hips and thighs.  Considering your particular body type will help you choose the exercise program most effective for your needs.

A football team is an easy reference point for the three body types and for realistic expectations.  Team members will exhibit the normal strengths, weaknesses, and necessities of each body type.  Ectos will never match the strength of endos or mesos, and will never have the ability to be a lineman, a linebacker, or a fullback.  Endos will never match the agility or speed of ectos or mesos, and will never have the ability to play receiver, running back, or defensive back.  Mesos are too small to play on the line, and generally lack the height and agility to be good receivers.  No running back wants to run behind a line of ectos.  No lineman wants to open holes for endo running backs or have their quarterback throwing to endo receivers.  All three types are needed, and each depends on the others for success. 
Each individual must accept that his body types prohibit him from developing certain body shapes.  If a Cocker Spaniel tries to look like a Labrador Retriever, it will spend its life hopelessly and miserably chasing an impossible dream.  For each different body type, there is a level of fitness and an ideal size and shape that can be achieved.  But regardless of effort, an ecto will never be able to look like a powerfully built meso because the bone structures are different.  Individuals must accept that doing their very best with what they have is all they can do, and furthermore, it is all they are required to do.

Monday, June 18, 2012

My First Father's Day

OK, technically Sunday, June 17 was my 39th Father's Day, but it was my FIRST AS A FATHER!  Since I was 16, I'd wondered if the day would ever come.  The following is the most personal thing about me, something I hid from just about everybody until a year ago when I shared it with my church family during a sermon: at age 16, I discovered that because of a birth defect, I would never have biological children.

As a junior in high school, I started the year at 5'3" tall and about 110 pounds.  I lied on my driver's license and put  5'4" and 115.  Somehow that made me feel better.  I'd never really started puberty because the only testosterone my body made was the 20% of a male's total that comes from the adrenal gland.  I was a slender, small child and for years I just thought I'd always be that way, but by the time I was 12, my 10-year old brother had passed me in size.  It was humiliating and it caused me to resent him.

After 7th grade, I refused to change in front of anyone.  I'd always loved sports and P.E. had been my favorite class of the day, but no more.  I was scared to death that someone would find out.  We moved to Portsmouth, VA the summer before my 10th grade year and for P.E. there, you were docked a point off your final grade for every day you didn't shower (in open showers) after class.  I quickly discovered that there were 90 days in a semester, and the best grade I could get was a 10, because I wasn't taking a shower in front of ANYBODY.  Awesome.  Made me miss Franklin County High School in Carnesville, GA all the more.  There, nobody cared if you went to class stinking.

Near the end of my 10th grade year, after my family had moved to SC, I convinced my parents that something was wrong with me and I started seeing doctors.  I thought having a younger brother pass me in size was humiliating, but it was NOTHING compared to the exams I was put through.  I won't post my official diagnosis to keep the content of this blog PG, but after a few months of blood work, I started taking testosterone in mid-September, 1989.  That's about the same time I was sized for my high school class ring - size 8.

All I knew was, that stuff worked!  The process that should've taken 3-4 years or more happened to me in less than a year.  SUDDENLY, and I do mean suddenly, none of my clothes or shoes fit anymore.  I developed an Adam's Apple that has given me shaving fits ever since, and the deeper voice that goes with it. Our class rings arrived around February, and I was completely shocked when my size 8 ring got stuck on my  middle knuckle.  I had to get it re-sized to a 10, and then later, to a 10.5.  In four months, I'd grown about 4 inches taller and about 40 pounds heavier.  Talk about AWESOME!

But, growing so quickly caused plenty of problems, too.  I tried out for my school's baseball team about that same time - February.  I was hitting balls harder than ever before - obviously.  I could throw harder.  There were about 30 guys trying out and up to half would get cut, so I was going all out.  And it was killing me.  Never before had physical activity caused me PAIN.  My sudden growth was too much for all my connective tissues, and each night after practice, I'd hobble to my room and ice everything down for a couple hours.  Each day at school was misery because we had 3 floors and I had classes on each.  One day before practice, I went and talked to the coach and told him the real reason I wasn't going to come back.  He told me I was going to make the team and that he could really use me, so I kept trying for a couple days.  And then I told him I just couldn't do it.  I was heartbroken.  Baseball was the only organized sport I'd ever played, I was pretty good at it, and playing high school baseball had always been a dream.
 

My growth slowed over the next year, and I graduated at 5'9" and about 175 pounds.  A few people at school actually accused me of taking steroids.  I asked them how stupid they were, because steroids don't make anybody grow 6" TALLER.  But, it was obvious that SOMETHING had happened.  I had some weights at home and used them often even though I didn't really know what I was doing, but my body-type is mesomorph and I had natural muscle.  Again, it was AWESOME!

That sounds like a happy ending, and the growth was great, but I was still dealing with the fact that I'd never have biological children.  When my doctor told me that part, I started crying.  And I didn't stop for a while.  He tried to console me with humor: "Just think, you can have all the sex you want and you won't have to worry about getting anybody pregnant!"  That didn't even make me smile.  I was a committed Christian, absolutely determined to have sex with my wife and only my wife.  My wife.

My wife was on my mind from that point on, and thinking about her scared me to death.  This is the hard part of my diagnosis, if you haven't figured it out.  I'd always loved being around children, especially babies, and they seemed to like me, too.  I just expected to have 3-4 of my own in the future.  With my wife.  But with my PROBLEM, I didn't think anybody would ever want me after they found out.  So I guarded my secret.  I absolutely HAD to tell my closest MALE friends, and a few adults (male and female) who had become mentors to me.  I went to the doctor twice a month for injections, and it grew increasingly difficult to hide all those doctor visits, or the yellow doctor's receipts that I sometimes forgot to remove from my car.  These receipts had big, dark handwriting on them that said, "Testosterone Injection."

But I hid it from girls.  The first girl I ever loved found out accidentally from a friend of ours at church.  The friend overheard it from someone I'd told.  This girlfriend, whom I wasn't even dating at the time but I PLANNED TO MARRY, called me one night and asked me to come see her after she got off work.  She needed to talk to me about "something."  We went and sat in my car and she immediately started crying and asked, "Why didn't you TELL me?"  I didn't even have to ask what it was.  I knew.  And I immediately thought, "Well, I can forget about her.  Not gonna happen now."  Before I had time to think anything else, she was telling me that it didn't matter to her, and it didn't change anything.  I was SHOCKED.  And AMAZED.  My fear turned out to be for NOTHING.  But how was I supposed to know it wouldn't matter to her?  She already had her children's NAMES picked out!  We ultimately did date for about a year, and my infertility had nothing to do with our breakup.

I decided that I didn't want to go through that awful situation again, and that the next time I was even THINKING about getting serious with a girl, I'd tell her up front.  So I did.  I told the next girl I dated early on that I had a secret, and if she found out about it, she might not want anything to do with me.  One night at a church softball game, again sitting in my car, she said she thought she knew my secret, and she guessed it right away.  I was thinking, "HOW IN THE WORLD DID YOU GET THAT FROM WHAT I SAID?  You weren't thinking "murderer," "felon," "sex-change operation," "toupee . . .???"

Two conversations, two wins for me.  I'd worried for years for nothing, so far.  But still, I was 25 years old and single, and I didn't want to be 35 years old and still single because everybody knew I couldn't have children.  So, I kept my secret to myself.

The third girl I ever got serious with already knew.  She's my wife today, but she used to be one of the students in my youth ministry.  She's always been tiny, and during her high school years, I wondered if she had a similar problem as me.  So I told her my secret and asked if she'd been examined by a doctor.  She assured me that she was OK.  I also told a few of my other students when there was an appropriate reason, with the assurance that they wouldn't tell anyone.  A couple were girls and a couple were guys, and I never INTENDED to tell them, but through some problem I was helping each deal with, my story just related and I thought it would help them.

A few years later when my future wife was no longer one of my students and I stopped seeing her as such, there were no barriers to her pursuing a relationship with me.  I didn't have to have one of those scary, intense car conversations.  Awesome!

Four years and one day after we were married, we became parents to Katherine Ava.  She was born ONE DAY before our anniversary.  We were hoping she'd be born ON our anniversary, but she had other plans.  We adopted Kate from two teenagers who put the best interests of their baby ahead of their own interests.  God led them to select us to raise their daughter.  They blessed us with a gift I was unable to give myself, or my wife.  I will forever be grateful to them.  And as long as it's in Kate's best interests, they'll always be a part of her life.

I have a big regret about my secret.  I spent most of the past 15 years PRIMARILY as a youth minister.  There are so many applications I could've made with my story, so much good I could've used it for, so many ways I could've potentially impacted more than just 4-5 lives with it.  But I was too scared.  I was selfish.  I was worried about scaring away some beautiful girl who could've been my future wife, while all that time God was working things out in ways I never would've asked for or originally wanted.  I have regrets.  But after finally being brave enough to tell my church last year, I'm no longer ashamed for people to know the truth about me.  The only reason I finally broke and told my story was because I was tired of people assuming that we were adopting because my wife was infertile.  I was tired of people asking both of us personal questions and us having to hide the truth.  I'm glad I finally got tired of it.  And I'm glad I'm no longer scared to tell the real story about why it took me so long to celebrate my first Father's Day as a father.


Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Why I Never Take A Bath

From Robert J. Morgan's My All in All, March 5

Hebrews 10:24-25 Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. 25 And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. 

Morgan writes:
I once saw a brochure that said, "Why I never Take a Bath."

1. I was forced to bathe as a child.
2. People who bathe are hypocrites; they think they're cleaner than others.
3. There are so many different kinds of soap, I can't decide which is best.
4. It's boring.
5. I wash only on special occasions, like Christmas and Easter.
6. The soap makers are only after your money.
7. The last time I bathed, someone was rude to me.
8. I'm too dirty to get clean; I'd clog up the drain.
9. I'll bathe only when I find a bathroom exactly right for me.
10. I can watch other people bathing on television.
11. I can bathe at the golf course.
12. The bathroom is never the right temperature and I don't like the sound of the plumbing.

The Lord Jesus established His church to carry on His work till He comes again. There's never been an organization like it and never will be again. It has a limited engagement on earth; it began on Pentecost and will end at the Rapture. It's not perfect, but it has changed the world.

Don't stay away, but encourage others by your involvement - and all the more as you see the day approaching.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Health Risks Associated With A Lack Of Fitness - Understanding Fitness Part C

If all the benefits of fitness aren't motivation for you to get/keep fit, maybe the fear that comes from reading about the RISKS that are associated with a LACK of fitness will be.

If it were only that easy for us to GET MOTIVATED . . .

How many middle-aged people are suffering with knee, hip, and lower back problems?  It's reasonable to assume that most of these people aren't suffering because of time spent in a war or on a sports field, but from a lack of fitness.  Lower back pain is VERY common in the United States.  Know the main reason why?  Because Americans are OVERWEIGHT AND UNFIT.

PREVENT, ALLEVIATE, or REDUCE these kinds of pain by GETTING FIT.  And I don't mean start JOGGING OR WALKING.  Fitness requires SOME SORT OF STRENGTH TRAINING.  I'll post on that later, and it's probably not what you think.  In the meantime, if you have questions, ask me.


Health Risks Associated With A Lack of Fitness
            Being overweight has serious consequences, and not just cosmetically or aesthetically.  It kills.  God did not design us to be overweight.  Approximately three hundred thousand deaths per year are directly related to obesity.  Carrying just ten pounds too many can shorten life expectancy, reason enough for every good steward to begin taking action steps toward fitness.
            The first health risk is not a disease, but a law that allows all the other health risks to occur: the Law of Adaptation.  Over time, the body adapts to the stresses imposed on it by whatever environment it is in and by whatever situations it regularly faces. People all over the world have adapted to the climate, germs, altitude, workload, and food of their area.  With the Law of Adaptation, as the body adapts to certain stresses, it un-adapts to opposing stresses.  People from warm climates are not prepared for cold weather, and vice versa.  This is true of the indigenous people of each area, but it is also true in the short-term.  The author has a missionary friend from South Carolina.  He and his family served for three years in Africa, and upon returning home, it took them a while not to feel cold in the South Carolina summer, which generally means daily highs of around ninety degrees.  Describing the Law of Adaptation, Ben Lerner teaches, “In the case of exercise, if you participate in a regular fitness program, the forces you apply will cause you to adapt and get stronger, leaner, and healthier.  If you rarely move, however, the lack of forces will cause you to adapt and get weaker, fatter, and sicker.”
            Atrophy is a result of the Law of Adaptation principle of “use it or lose it.”  Atrophy is the loss of muscle.  Anyone who has broken an arm or leg has seen the results of atrophy.  When the cast is removed just a few weeks later, the muscles are always smaller because they could not be moved or exercised.  This is a “classic example of resource allocation.  If your body knows you are using crutches instead of quadriceps then it figures, ‘Forget this, I’ll put my energy elsewhere.’  This process of muscle loss does not occur just from a complete lack of movement.  Atrophy happens naturally as people age.  Kenneth Cooper warns that without a regular program of strength exercises,
a steady loss of muscle mass will inevitably occur after about age thirty.  By some estimates, there’s a 3 to 5 percent loss of muscle mass every ten years, beginning between age thirty to forty.  Some experts say that the total loss of muscle mass between ages thirty and seventy may be as high as 30 to 40 percent, or an average of 10 percent every ten years during this period.  After age seventy, as most people become more sedentary, the loss of muscle mass may accelerate.

            Atrophy is a general health hazard because it slows metabolism.  Metabolism will be discussed in greater detail in Chapter Three: The Connection Between Diet and Fitness, but since muscle burns calories, a loss of muscle results in a loss of calorie burning ability.  Unburned calories are stored as body fat.  As people lose muscle from a lack of exercise, they get weaker, but at the same time, they get fatter and heavier.  This combination of reduced strength and increased size brings an escalation of unfitness and health risks.  
While women naturally store excess fat on their hips and thighs, men naturally store it in the worst possible place: the abdomen.  Excess abdominal fat is associated with an increased risk of coronary artery disease, elevated triglycerides, hypertension, and cancer. Both unfit men and women are at a greater risk for a variety of diseases and health problems, including heart disease, stroke, high blood pressure, high triglycerides, high “bad” cholesterol (LDL), low “good” cholesterol (HDL – high density lipoprotein), and inflamed blood vessels.  
A definition of triglycerides is necessary because it is not as commonly understood as cholesterol.  Triglycerides are a type of fat found in blood.  The body converts any calories it does not need into triglycerides and stores them as fat cells.  Because triglycerides cannot dissolve in blood, they circulate throughout the body until they are stored.  High triglycerides may contribute to hardening of the arteries or thickening of the artery walls, which ultimately results in stroke or heart attack.
            Type II diabetes is another health risk from a lack of fitness, and to no surprise, it is most common in the United States.  Type I diabetes, also known as juvenile diabetes, is the result of the pancreas not producing insulin.  It usually starts in childhood and may be present at birth, but it most often results from an autoimmune reaction in which the pancreas is affected by a virus.  Type II diabetes occurs when the pancreas produces too little insulin or when the body has built a resistance to insulin and is no longer as effective at using sugar for energy.  Type II diabetes represents 90 percent of all diabetes cases, and it is linked directly to poor diet and a sedentary lifestyle. Eighty percent of people with this disease are overweight.
            A sedentary individual who never exercises sometimes experiences higher blood sugar levels.  With a diet of excessive carbohydrates like refined sugar and processed flour, blood-sugar will start to rise simply because the body becomes resistant to the high amounts of sugar in the blood.  Insulin is no longer effective enough to keep up with all the excess carbohydrates, and the body has no other way to burn all the sugar in the blood.
            Exercise counters this problem.  Healthy, conditioned muscles have the capacity to quickly select their fuel source (sugar or fat) during times of fasting or feeding.  Untrained muscles are more insulin resistant and are unable to use sugar efficiently for energy even with insulin present.  Tom P. Hafer says, “Think of unexercised muscles as having less ability to use the energy source they have.  That is why the more you exercise the better you are at utilizing calories - and the less likely you are to develop Type II diabetes.” 
            Being overweight also raises the risk for several types of cancer, including esophageal cancer, uterine cancer, postmenopausal breast cancer, and kidney cancer.  Cancer is the second leading cause of death in the United States.  One possible link between these cancers and being overweight is that fat cells make hormones that might affect cell growth.
            Osteoporosis is a bone disease characterized by brittle and porous bones that break easily and result in such deformities as the outwardly curved upper spine known as “dowager’s hump.”  These conditions can be debilitating and even fatal.  By the age of seventy, a third of all women and a sixth of all men will suffer a hip fracture. Osteoporosis is best combated with strength training, not calcium supplements.  Strength training builds bone and “the most effective prevention of osteoporosis is early rigorous exercise that includes weight-bearing and some sort of weight lifting.”
            Carrying too much weight causes osteoarthritis, a joint disorder in which the tissues that protect joints, bones, and cartilage gradually wear away.  The most commonly affected areas are the knees, hips, and the lower back.  The more weight people carry, the more pressure they put on their joints and cartilage. 
For those who already suffer from arthritis, exercise is the remedy.  Once pain appears in any joint, exercising the joint to replenish it with nutrients should always be the first treatment choice.  Cartilage has a poor blood supply and gets its nutrients from synovial fluid inside the joint.  It is actual joint movement that allows the joint to become flexible.  Compression forces the joint fluids to rebuild and repair the joint.  Hafer compares this joint process to working taffy.  As cold and brittle taffy is worked (pulled), it warms up and becomes pliable.  The initial joint pain from exercise can cause a person to stop out of fear that something is wrong, but movement is normally exactly what the joint needs.
            Unfit and overweight bodies produce more cholesterol that can cause fat buildup in the liver.  The extra cholesterol often develops into solid clusters in the gallbladder known as gallstones.  The fatty accumulation in the liver causes inflammation and scarring, which can then cause cirrhosis, even among those who are not heavy drinkers. As a side note, gallstones often develop in people who lose a lot of weight quickly (more than three pounds per week) and people who try very low-calorie diets.  Therefore, modest, consistent weight loss of up to two pounds per week is the recommended goal.
            Sleep apnea is the final health risk to be discussed.  Sleep apnea is not the same as snoring or even heavy snoring; it occurs when a person stops breathing for short periods during sleep.  The results are daytime sleepiness, difficulty concentrating, increased blood pressure, and even heart failure.  Weight loss helps this condition by decreasing neck size and air passage inflammation.

Friday, June 1, 2012

John Deere Green

When I went to pick Kate up after work yesterday, I saw my Dad on the lawn mower going away from me.  As I got closer, I could tell that he was leaning to the left, like he was trying to hold on to something.  He turned the mower around and what he was holding was Kate!

Last week I rode Kate on our OLD mower for about two minutes, just across the yard as I put it up.  She enjoyed it, but she enjoys lots of stuff.  (The picture and video in this post is of her on our old lawnmower.)


But she REALLY enjoyed riding on the John Deere mower with my Dad.  They'd already cut about 1/3 of the yard, so she'd been riding for a while.  Daddy said that at first, she was content to ride, but eventually, she had to STEER.

Normally when I arrive to pick her up, no matter what she's doing, she lights up and reaches for me.  Not this time.  She knew I was there to get her and she didn't want to go.  Instead of reaching for me, she clutched herself to Daddy and started whining.  When I took her from Daddy, she started crying.  I tossed her in the air a few times to distract her and started to leave, but as I was opening the truck door to put her in her car seat, Daddy started the mower up again.  And the crying started all over again!

Let's just say, I know what we'll probably get Kate for Christmas in the next year or two.  Also, I'm going to ENCOURAGE the grass cutting.  I don't plan to raise a daughter that won't cut grass just because she's a girl.  Kate's going to know how to do things that some people think aren't "girly," but in a real world, they're basic necessities.  Not every girl gets married the moment they leave their parents' house, therefore, not every girl will always have a MAN around to do "manly" stuff - which also includes stuff like, for the car, checking fluid levels, tire pressure, and knowing how to change a flat tire.  Cooking meat on a grill is also a NECESSITY.

Getting dirty doesn't make a girl un-girly.  Getting dirty and never taking a bath?  That's a different story.  I've been in youth ministry at least part-time since 1997.  Trust me: it's not just middle school boys that think getting in the pool is the only bath they need on a week-long retreat or mission trip.

I WILL say that my wife couldn't change a flat tire on her SUV b/c she can't lift the spare!  But, she knows HOW.  She watches me do it every time I change the oil and rotate the tires on our cars.  And she just reminded me that when she was a little girl and shared a go-cart with her sister, she learned how to do all the maintenance on it.  I didn't know I had a lawnmower mechanic under our roof.  I'll have to make a note of that.

BTW, don't make fun of the outfit.  I'm CUTTING GRASS!  And the tall socks?  If you had a Husqvarna commercial string trimmer (weedeater), you'd wear some leather CHAPS when you used it.